|There are times when I do feel truly centered|
and parenting seems much easier.
Other days I do such a good job of keeping myself centered and my agenda in check that my daughter's tantrums don't set me off and my son's dreaminess and difficulty moving at my pace don't phase me. As I mentioned in that earlier post, one of the things that helps keep me in that more connected frame of mind is being in the moment. And what keeps me in the moment is really noticing the moments. I know that statement sounds simplistic and I know it's not easy to just "be in the moment". I know this because it's supremely hard for me, and I have some practice at it.
My dad sent me a video today that really moved me. After watching it I had the most remarkable day with my kids. The whole afternoon was filled with things going "wrong" and yet I was composed. I was compassionate with meltdowns, I was relaxed during negotiations, I was patient with the pace at which things were moving. Most of all, I was really aware of all the little, ordinary moments throughout the day...none of which were remarkable, but in noticing them I was able to stay calm and focused. I don't know, maybe it's just coincidence. But I wanted to share the video with you. I'd love to know what you think.
Moments from Everynone on Vimeo.
If you can't see the video, please click on this link.
For me, it just boils down to being so grateful for each moment. No matter how basic, ordinary or simple; each moment can be a piece of poetry if you can only see it that way. I am sure I will be frustrated again. Or lose my temper. But it's not about being perfect. I'm simply working at being able to notice all these little pieces of the day, so I don't let one moment in time, that isn't going as I wish, destroy the million little, beautiful moments that surround it.
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